ABSTRACT
A new oiconomy of relationships has to have as its basis the actualized self. And philosophizing after Kierkegaard means helping to reveal and understand the boundary of existence that is implied by presupposing love in the other, or to accept as a possibility an incommunicable suffering connected with standing alone or above the universal.
Keywords: new oiconomy of relationships, actualized self, Kierkegaard, individual, universal